Yeah you guessed it right. I was just wondering how easy is to move on???
After huge success (I know I’m exaggerating) of my post what does being in love means?? ,, I’m back with its sequel. Now once you are in love( no matter which case of my above said post you are), then two cases arise,,either you carry on it with that Happily-ever-after ending or if you are not that lucky,,,then break up,,, what else,,, now again two cases arise.
You get into a relation just for the heck of being in a relationship as you are all that hot & happening person & being single despite of being equipped with everything is just not cool. So you purpose any random guy/gal of your match,,equally hot & happening,,go on dating & all. But then you feel, he/she is imposing restrictions on you or is being too possessive, etc. so you just dump him/her.
In such a case, breakup just means a new happening relation & moving on is a cake walk.
If you are all deeply & emotionally attached to a person or I can say it’s so called true love, then moving on is real tough journey. Anything related to him/her reminds you of him/her, no matter how insignificant that thing maybe. His favorite sport/ her favorite color, his favorite bike/ her favorite novel, his favorite song/ her favorite movie, once he said this/ once she told you that,,,I mean absolutely anything that links with him/her.
Not only breakups but rejection can also cause this to you. Some people are really afraid of commitment. Even if they have something for you in their heart, they won’t admit, so they’ll give you any vague reason & tell you to move on. You really need to be like Monica Gellar to get a yes from your Chandler Being,,but not everyone can be like Monica & not everyone is Chandler.
In any case you can’t completely erase his/her memories,, you can only wait till they fade away & cease to be a cause of your pain.
But yeah,,it’s always better try absolutely anything that can keep you away from his/her memories than to keep sulking. Moving on is the way to life,,,so try to move on.
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