Sunday, February 14, 2010

The Chinese tag!!

This is the first time I’m tagged this way,,,thanks sepo. So here I go………

8 TV shows/News Channels I like to watch

I just love shows of star world, travel & living, Disney channel, MTV but my favorite are

1. FRIENDS (I just can’t get enough of this show)
2. Nigella feasts (actually most of the shows of Travel & living)
3. according to Jim
4. Mr beans
6. Shin Chan
7. Hannah Montanna
8. Foodie

8 Places to eat and dine

1. Kwality Food Point
2. Hot Billions
3. Casino
4. Spice food court
5. Barista
6. CCD
7. Sain
8. Dominos

8Things I Look Forward To

1. Blogging
2. Shopping sprees
3. Novels
4. Birthdays
5. Trips
6. Holidays
7. Spotting a dashing Sardar
8. Meeting my cousin

8 Things That Happened Yesterday

1. Lot of messaging (85 I send)
2. Lot of surfing (spend two hours on net,,which is a lot as per my new standard)
3. Discovered Buzz in gmail,,,it’s good
4. Read few more pages of The Fountainhead
5. Helped mom with her work
6. Made first call through my new phone & new connection
7. Wrote few more lines of my new story
8. Laughed a lot

8 Things I love about winter

1. No skin problems
2. No need to bath daily :P
3. Sweaters make you look fatter
4. You can sleep more without caring for damn power cuts
5. Bright sunlight
6. Dried leaves scattered everywhere
7. Cozy feel of quilt
8. Coffee,,,,hot

8 Things on my Wish-list (this is part of my post 20 things to do before I die)

1)Before I die, I wanna visit Harminder sahib (golden temple), Amritsar. I have a strong desire to go there. I just hope that soon I’ll go there.
2) I wanna spend few hours in the room where I was born at our home in Kashmir. Hope that that room will remain there as such till I visit it & of course our home also.
3) I wanna taste all that cuisines of the world that I have cherished on TV.
4) I wanna go on world tour & visit some of my favorite places that I have seen only on TV which includes Switzerland, Japan, UK, USA,etc. Hmmmmmmmmm quite big dreams!!
5) I wanna see the Seven Wonders of the World
6) I wanna go on a tour of India & visit all the historical monuments & other great places.
7) Before I die, I wanna attend the marriage ceremonies of all my friends so that they’ll have my photo in their marriage album & whenever they’ll see that they’ll remember me. This wish aroused in me when I got a sms from a friend of mine .
8) Before I’ll die, I wanna confess few things before few people.

8 Things I am Passionate about

1. Writing
2. Blogging
3. Novels
4. being perfect in my work
5. Helping my friends
6. Thinking about things
7. Giving advices :D
8. Being a rajput in true sense

8 Words/Phrases I often use

1. Oh yeah
2. yippee
3. Crap
4. Jithe de khoti uthe aaye kadoti(in pure Dogri)
5. Bandari(only at home that too for my sis)
6. sahi hai
7. kamino
8. WTF

8 Things I learnt from the past

1. Keep your secrets to yourself
2. Don’t let others know what your weak points are.
3. Do good but don’t expect good in return
4. Don’t depend on others for anything,,be it emotional support or anything else
5. If you don’t want someone to go away from you then don’t ever tell this to him/her.
6. duniya mein kitna gum hai, mera gum kitna kum hai,,,,so just be happy
7. I’m the best,,take it or leave it,,,have this attitude,,,don’t ever think that you are less than anyone else
8. Life is too short,,,so live life kingsize.

8 Places I would like to go /Visit

1. Golden temple, Amritsar
2. Assam
3. Kerala
4. Switzerland
5. Malaysia
6. Greece
7. New York
8. leh

8 Things I currently need/want

1. Peace of mind
2. 950bucks
3. Notes to myself by Hugh Prather
4. The Godfather
5. 10 seasons of FRIENDS
6. New Moon, movie
7. Call from army
8. Digi-Cam

8 Blogging Buddies I want to Tag

1. Jaunty
2. rahil
3. happybirdie
4. vivek
5. G
6. tomz
7. funkyrave
8. raghav (a new blogger,,,do check his blog)

Monday, February 8, 2010

How easy is to move on after a breakup??

(Valentine's day special)

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, you’ll find Valentine’s fever everywhere. Gift shops are loaded with Valentine’s gifts/whatever. As my friend has mentioned in her blog, these gifts will only bug you if you know that you are not gonna get any of these. True. Now people who have never been in any such relation before will just be a little upset but story is entirely different for people who were once in a relationship or who have faced rejection.

Yeah you guessed it right. I was just wondering how easy is to move on???

After huge success (I know I’m exaggerating) of my post what does being in love means?? ,, I’m back with its sequel. Now once you are in love( no matter which case of my above said post you are), then two cases arise,,either you carry on it with that Happily-ever-after ending or if you are not that lucky,,,then break up,,, what else,,, now again two cases arise.


You get into a relation just for the heck of being in a relationship as you are all that hot & happening person & being single despite of being equipped with everything is just not cool. So you purpose any random guy/gal of your match,,equally hot & happening,,go on dating & all. But then you feel, he/she is imposing restrictions on you or is being too possessive, etc. so you just dump him/her.

In such a case, breakup just means a new happening relation & moving on is a cake walk.


If you are all deeply & emotionally attached to a person or I can say it’s so called true love, then moving on is real tough journey. Anything related to him/her reminds you of him/her, no matter how insignificant that thing maybe. His favorite sport/ her favorite color, his favorite bike/ her favorite novel, his favorite song/ her favorite movie, once he said this/ once she told you that,,,I mean absolutely anything that links with him/her.

Not only breakups but rejection can also cause this to you. Some people are really afraid of commitment. Even if they have something for you in their heart, they won’t admit, so they’ll give you any vague reason & tell you to move on. You really need to be like Monica Gellar to get a yes from your Chandler Being,,but not everyone can be like Monica & not everyone is Chandler.

In any case you can’t completely erase his/her memories,, you can only wait till they fade away & cease to be a cause of your pain.

But yeah,,it’s always better try absolutely anything that can keep you away from his/her memories than to keep sulking. Moving on is the way to life,,,so try to move on.

P.S. Food, fun,friendship & more on my new blog DIVINE SECRETS OF SEPO-VANDY SISTERHOOD :D,,,,check it out.

Monday, February 1, 2010

How I'm gonna leave this place???

Last exam,,,it’s entirely different. It means you’ll be free soon,,,free to carry out your plans,,,movies,,shopping,,food,,blogs,,novels,,,and a zillion things.

Today was my last exam,I wasn’t thinking much about the course,,which BTW was Industrial Management,my mind was occupied with my after-exams plans that I had made during my exams & now after this exam,,this last exam,,hey,,hang on for a minute,,did I say last??? Oh yeah last.

My last exam of 7th semester,,rather my last day of 7th semester,,my 8th semester will start soon,,last semester,,,LAST,,this mere word sends a shiver down my spine. LAST,,,it’s gonna be over soon….

As I was struggling to get out of these thoughts,,I crossed college gate & then my mind drifted to the time when I first crossed this gate….

It was August of 2006,,when I came here for the first time with my cousin to see the campus. It was evening & the college was deserted except for gatekeepers. The bike crossed the gate & I saw a road, having no idea where it was leading to. I really liked the campus.

Then after a month,on 28th september,I came again for my first day of first semester. Like other freshers, I was so damn scared,,yeah,,scared of ragging, so much so that I brought my mom with me (I laugh now whenever I remember that, it’s a secret , I haven’t told anyone), but the gatekeepers didn’t allow her in saying, “after a year you’ll be a senior & you’ll forget this time.” So true, a year passed & I became a senior myself ready for taking ragging.

Initially it was a whole new world for me but then I made friends & I began to love this place. During these three & a half years, I’ve learned so many things here,,, perhaps I should publish that in some paper,,but for now I’m publishing it here

There are actually many kinds of calculators, not just 8digits & 10digits(what a moron I was to think so). BTW the one I used in my engineering was fx991MS

You have to use more than one type of pencil for making engineering drawings (that includes plans for buildings, etc also). Not color pencils, pencils having different shades of grey 2H, 3H,4H,,,,what the H-eck??

It is more adventurous to go to college through green fields,,struggling to get your scooty out of buffaloes than to follow normal way.

You can earn money quite easily, just by adding few bucks to actual fees before asking for it and of ccourse,,by selling your old books without telling your parents,,,books,,afterall are our best friends.

Chips & cold drinks of college canteen are yummier than anywhere else on the world.

You won’t die with 12 A current. Relief for me.

It isn’t less challenging than a ROADIES task to search for an alternate way to get out of college when principal is after you. BTW don’t ever hide in library or net lab after a mass bunk or bunk, your chances of being caught increases.

Having different types of vendors in your class is fun,,golgappe valas, steel valas,etc.

Chalk pelting on teachers can cost you one attendance or even more so beware.

A single hoot in class means a whole semester of scolding,, if that hoot is in the class of a teacher who happens to be topper in her college days & head girl in school days, that too of a convent

No matter if you occupy highest position in faculty, if you can’t give relevant examples,just stuff it & please don’t piss off students with your irrelevant examples

Maximum marks means minimum friends,,that’s why I’m always complacent with my optimum marks

Not just these there are many more things the list is just endless, but I’m gonna stop here only.

Getting into this college was never my aim. I never wanted to be in this college in the first place but now I don’t want to leave this college.

Three and a half years ago, I didn’t know where that way was leading to but today I was sure where it was leading…..

……it was leading to a treasure box filled with a zillion sweet memories that will never cease to bring smile & tears on my face,,,,,,a zillion memories that I’ll retain throughout my life.

P.S. I've started another blog with my friend sepo,,check it out DIVINE SECRECTS OF SEPO-VANDY SISTERHOOD :D


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