Thursday, December 31, 2009


So yet another year is about to end. I don’t know about others but this year was full of happenings for me. Every single moment was a sort of adventure. A hell lot of significant & insignificant things happened that changed my life to a great extent. Finally I got to know how to judge people, though I know I can still be wrong. Nevertheless, everything was a great experience.

I laughed, I cried, I talked, I listened, I read (novels not my course books), I wrote (posts for my blog), I participated, I organized, I had treats, I gave treats, I left stones, I took gems, I taught, I learned, I lost some things but I won yet another battle with life.

So leaving all the bitter memories behind & taking all the sweet memories, I’m all ready to enter 2010. As it’s a ritual for me to make resolutions for every year though every year my resolutions are almost same, here are my resolutions for 2010:

1) 1) This year will be my last year in college rather last semester in college, so I’m gonna enjoy to fullest, more than I enjoyed this year. More picnics, more trips, more parties, more bunks, and more time in canteen.

2) 2) I’m gonna read all of Paulo Coelho’s novels this year. I have already read 4 of his novels.

3) 3) I’ll use spectacles most of the time when I’m at home.

4) 4) I’ll try not to say no to anyone whosoever asks for my help in college (though I still do the same) as this is my last year in college :(

5) 5) I’ll start my novel this year. No more delay.

Hope I act upon these resolutions.

P.S. wishing all my friends & readers a very happy & prosperous new year. May this year bring loads of happiness in your life.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

C for carelessness!!

(I'm back with my A,B,C,,,,,,A for assignments, B for busy and now C for carelessness)

Scene 1

At home

9 a.m. (note my college starts at 9:30a.m. & it’s about 5 kilometers away from my place & it takes near about 1hour to reach there,,all thanks to ultra slow transport to that route)

Me (yelling): “Mom, where’s my book/assignment file/novel/dupatta/sweater/chappal/spectacles/anything else? I can’t find it. I have told you 100 & one time not to touch my stuff”

Mom (cool as always): “As if this mess looks so good”

Me (still shrieking):“Good or bad, I don’t care but please never touch any of my stuff again, you got it?”

Mom (still so cool): “I didn’t touch anything,,,everything is as you left it, check carefully you’ll find it”

Me (even louder):“Do you think I’m lying,,,I really can’t find it”

Mom enters the room, just picks up few things & ah ha,,,,here’s what I was searching for.

She gives a dirty look & I just grin meekly.

This scene repeats almost every morning.

Scene 2:

At College

Any of my friend (shouting after me): “Vandy, where’s your bag/spectacles/assignment/any other thing?”

Me (puzzled): “I don’t remember,I guess I forget where I have left that,,have you seen it?”

That same friend (giving a dirty look): “yes of course, it’s here. You are so careless”

Scene 3:

On my way to college

Suddenly I remember that I forget to bring assignment/some other stuff ,, so I pick up my cell & call choti

Me: “yaar I forgot to bring my assignment/some other stuff. So please come with that,,I’m waiting”

Choti: “why you always forget your stuff at home?”

Why? Why? Why?

Not these only there are about a thousand such examples. The best one that I haven’t mentioned above is how I lost my phone.

I always forget many things & I don’t know exactly if it is carelessness or absent mindedness. I guess this is not my problem only,,,many other suffer from this. Now the question that arise here is,,,,why people are so careless???

Once I read it somewhere that the people who are too happy tend to be more careless as they are always lost in their own world. Now the same can be true for people who are not so happy,,,,or I can say too sad that they don’t see anything important around them & hence are absentminded. In the same book it was written for players that their minds are in skies & their hearts are in their boots so they often forget their stuff in trains or planes or whichever transport they are availing.

Now in my case,,,I guess nothing fits well,,,as I’m neither the happiest person of this world nor the saddest. I’m not even a player or anything like that but still I’m absent minded or careless whatever you call it,,,so there has to be some other theory. But then there’ll be a million absent minded & careless people like me for whom the above theory fails so there has to be some theory for people like us.

Ya there’s one,,,,may be all of the last group,that includes me also,consider ourselves as Alice who’s lost in her wonderland & that’s why we really are lost & wondering why we are so careless & absentminded?

P.S. does it make any sense?

P.S. 2 : One of my friend has also started blogging,,,the link to her blog is RENDEZVOUS. Do check it out.

Saturday, December 19, 2009


You get up in the morning,,,get ready for college,,,,as soon as you step inside college,,,some restless creatures surround you & you get busy in answering their queries & helping them,,,no matter what they want,,,you are there with a solution. This day,,,is again a busy day,,,as always,,,,,then after you come back to home straight,,,, or have a party(which you do most of the time),,,ofcourse you don’t need any reason for that,,,you party anywhere or anytime you want,,,then back to home,,,,again busy in attending calls,,,answering queries ,,,helping friends. If free from cell,,,then busy on net,,,mailing stuff to friends,,,because they need it & therefore you have to send,,,,if idle on net,,,then putting pics on Facebook,,,taking quizzes,,,commenting,,,updating status,,for no reason of course. If free from net & cell,,,then reading novels,,,trying to identify yourself with some character of the novel & in most of the cases you really find a character like you. Finally,,,nothing left to do & by this time you are too tired,,,so as soon as you get in bed,,you are in deep slumber.


Still you get time to get lost,,,,,even if you are in a crowd,,,,,or partying with friends,,,,or reading a novel. Lost,,,,,,where,,,why,,,,,you don’t have an answer!!!

Lost,,,,maybe,,,because,,,,that emptiness in your life is visible to you,,,,no matter how hard you try to escape from that emptiness. It comes & stands in front of you to let you know,,,,how meaningless is your life,,,,,and,,,once again you start to wonder,,,,,where is that real essence of life????

P.S. This post may have many mistakes,,,so help yourself & try to understand ;)

Monday, December 7, 2009

silly sweet moments!!!

No words..........

P.S. some patterns,,designs,,whatever were copied but the people are genuine & I've full authority to publish these pics of them,,,so do you like the pics???


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